Divorce Support

I know from personal experience that surviving the aftermath of a marital disaster is beyond difficult. The life that you once knew, and thought you would have, has gone up in flames.

Your present reality is crashing with your fantasy of forever. Your past feels like a sham, your present is intolerable, and your future is uncertain.  It’s like someone put your life in a blender and flipped the switch onto high.

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I have been where you are. I understand the magnitude of what you are going through, and how hard it is for you to imagine that your life will ever feel normal again.

I was married for 20 years when my husband suddenly decided he was done. I didn’t see it coming, I was happy with two kids, a beautiful house, a dog and all the other trimmings that I expected to have forever. I was a child of divorce so I swore early on that I would never be divorced. I was committed to my commitment, and absolutely shocked when it ended.

When you got married you deposited all of your hopes and dreams in that institution, and in your partner. You felt safe, trusted deeply, and gave your heart and soul to the relationship. You took vows and made promises to be together forever…you believed in forever.

Some people say promises are made to be broken, but we still want to believe them when they are being made. You are suffering from broken promises, and broken promises lead to a broken heart…and a broken heart hurts.

I recognize that you are barely able to think, or function, let alone find the support you need. I’m sure you have been on the internet, googling terms like “divorce; infidelity; couple’s therapy; saving a marriage” or anything else they might bring you some relief.

You are disoriented, bleeding from the heart and completely in shock.

I can and will help you to pick up the pieces of your shattered life.

Remember, you are not alone. You are walking a path that many courageous and amazing people have walked before you.

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This is why your experience of divorce can deeply impact your mind, body and spirit, leading to a variety of psychological, physiological and emotional symptoms.

You have embarked on a journey (whether you like it or not) so you might as well make it a pilgrimage to somewhere great…Start right here by signing up for my free inspirational emails.

You can also read more about divorce on my blog, on Huffington Post Divorce, and on Good Therapy.